“Your life is like a story,” I told the girls. “You are the main character—the star of the show!” They smiled and looked pleased. “You are not only the main character,” I went on, relying heavily on Daniel Taylor’s ideas in Tell Me a Story; the Life-shaping Power of Stories. “You are also in some ways the author. You get to decide what happens in your story.”
Schools here choose their primary religious affiliation. Other students are free to attend, but on days like today with a Christian missionary speaker, Muslim children were given the opportunity to go to the library instead. Several did, but I saw at least one white headscarf left sitting in the sea of blue uniforms.
An earlier speaker from a program much like the ones where I read books in Johannesburg had just received a contribution of clothing and toys the girls had collected over the past couple weeks. She told the girls about a twelve-year-old from their center who was raped and strangled. (I’m not sure I would have told that particular story, but it is the reality of many.) “Sometimes people may do bad things to you,” I said. “Things you can’t control. Those things aren’t your fault. But you get to decide how you respond to them. Will you be angry and bitter? Or maybe withdraw into yourself and not let anyone come near because you don’t want to be hurt again? Or will you let those things make you a stronger person who draws closer to God as a result?
“You are responsible for your choices. You decide if you will be the hero of your story who makes wise choices that lead to a happy ending, or if you will make foolish choices so your life turns into a tragedy of broken relationships and pain. There is no happier ending than living forever with Jesus in heaven. You get to choose how you write this story of your life!”
Time was short with two presentations for the same assembly. I cut part of what I had intended to say about being an author. The grade sixes had a scheduled outing and filed out quietly before I read aloud my little book Beads and Braids. I was glad they didn’t have to leave before the challenge to choose their futures wisely. I hope they heard more than a skinny granny, standing on the school stage, talking about stories in a funny American accent.